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He died a year ago today.
It can be confusing.
AJ, I miss you.
You’d love all this blog stuff. You’d be posting deviously witty comments. We’d be having fun.
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While I was pondering whether to post this, I realised something pretty extraordinary.
He is the reason that YOU, dear reader, are here too.
Who ever you are. How ever you got here. When ever that is.
Small pebble, big ripple.